Spoon-Feeding or Self-Feeding - Which Weaning Method Should You Choose?

This blog is written by Guest Writer Jennifer Unsworth at Tidy Tot.

So, it’s time for your baby to start exploring foods for the first time! Exciting times ahead, but deciding on which weaning approach to follow with your baby can be a difficult decision and a daunting prospect for all parents.

In this blog post we explore the advantages of baby-led weaning (BLW) and the more traditional spoon-led approach, along with some of the downsides, to help you to decide which weaning method would be best for you and your little one. Whichever route you decide, the most important thing to try and remember is to ensure the weaning journey is as enjoyable, stress-free and fun as possible for you and your family… so try not to stress too much and just follow your own instincts when it comes to feeding your baby!

What is traditional weaning?

Traditional weaning, or spoon-led weaning as it’s often called, is when your baby learns to swallow first with purees and chew in later stages. Let’s take a deeper look into baby weaning methods compared.

Advantages of spoon-led weaning

  • Weaning can be started before 6 months if (and only if!) your baby is ready, as you can begin to introduce very simple purees
  • More suited for feeding on the go as purees can be easily packed and transported
  • Puree feeding advantages are many.  It may be easier to introduce iron-rich foods such as meat and leafy, green vegetables in puree form as these can be hard for younger babies to chew
  • It can be less messy than baby-led weaning (until baby decides to grab the spoon!)
  • It is much easier to know how much your baby has eaten

Disadvantages of spoon-led weaning as your primary method

  • Preparing separate purees for baby can be time consuming
  • Having to spoon-feed your baby makes it difficult to eat at the same time as them and enjoy family mealtimes together
  • Choosing ready-made purees can be difficult. Recent media attention, such as the April 2025 BBC Panorama episode titled “The Truth About Baby Food Pouches” highlighted some nutritional concerns and concerns over sugar content.
Baby using a spoon to eat their food

What is baby-led weaning?

Baby-led weaning, or BLW as its commonly referred to, is when your baby feeds themselves with finger foods right from the beginning of their weaning journey.

Advantages of baby-led weaning (BLW)

  • Baby can be a part of family mealtimes and eat the suitable bits of family meals making it easier for the family to eat together
  • Less work for parents without all the preparing, mashing and pureeing of food
  • Babies skip the smooth food (purees) phase and get used to chewing from the very beginning of their weaning journey, therefore avoiding the difficult transition from purees to lumpy textures
  • There is some evidence to suggest that baby-led weaning can reduce fussy eating and help to develop a more adventurous palette
  • Baby discovers new tastes and textures by playing with and exploring their food, known to aid their cognitive development

Disadvantages of baby-led weaning (BLW)

  • It can be very messy so some parents may be reluctant to eat out and may find mealtimes more stressful (our top tip? Invest in a Tidy Tot Bib & Tray Kit of course!)
  • It can take a long time for baby to consume a decent amount of food
  • Is baby-led weaning safe? This is a question often asked by first time parents, so if this is running through your head, you are not alone.  The short answer is yes.  As long as you’re preparing food according to NHS guidelines  and supervising your baby at all times, baby led weaning is a perfectly safe and positive way to feed your baby.
  • You will need to adapt your family meals and recipes to ensure that they are appropriate for your baby (e.g. no added salt, low sugar, nutritionally balanced)… but this could have health benefits for the whole family!
  • It’s hard to know how much your baby has actually eaten and a lot of food can be wasted as food can fall on the floor and into the highchair (well we all know the solution to this… a Tidy Tot Bib & Tray Kit!)
Baby eating food with their hands

Can I combine baby-led weaning and spoon-feeding?

A combination of both methods may work for you and your baby and can be a way of encouraging baby to self-feed using a spoon and explore tastes and textures with finger foods. Being able to use purees can make it easier to give your baby iron-rich foods and can make travelling and eating on the go a little easier when the need arises.

You can start with spoon-feeding and giving your baby finger foods at the same time so that they learn both skills at the same time – you might find that your baby prefers one way of feeding over another and you can adapt your weaning method accordingly to find the best approach for you and your baby.

Final thoughts

It’s important to remember that every baby and every parent is different, so choose the approach which is best and easiest for you and your family. Stay calm, follow your instincts and try not to panic – some days your baby will eat lots and others they may be more picky. Try not to worry, trust your baby’s appetite and never force your baby to eat something that they are refusing.

Try to relax and let your baby explore tastes and textures in their own way, ensuring your weaning adventure is as fun and relaxed as it can be. The best possible outcome is that your baby associates food and mealtimes with a fun and positive experience to set them on a path to healthy eating for life.

10% off your next order?

Yes please

Website by Cognique

  • Visa
  • Mastercard
  • PayPal
My Basket